There are two types of erotic sex: a series of separate erotic sex or erotic sex with a series of uncontrollable pelvic floor muscle spasms. This experience seems to be more common in women than men because penile ejaculation initiates a longer refractory period (a recovery period during which the reproductive organs are inactive). However, some women have little or no sexual sex, while some men avoid the refractory period by learning how to climax without ejaculating.
Tips to Enjoy Erotic Sex
Try these methods with your partner to spice up your sexual sessions, or use these methods during masturbation to better understand how to enjoy yourself.
Relax
When you start having sex, whether alone or with a partner, you may feel a lot of pressure to experience a lot of erotic sex. Understand that you may or may not need to have sexual intercourse multiple times, and be open to the prospect that trying these approaches will increase your pleasure. Take a deep breath when you are aroused and relax both mentally and physically.
Erotic Sex Exercises
Erotic sex exercises allow you to gain more control over your pelvic floor muscles by tensing and relaxing them. Developing your pelvic floor increases the intensity of erotic sex. These muscles can be tightened more during intercourse with a partner and during masturbation, which can make sex more erotic and even induce orgasms.
Getting on an Edge
Edging is the act of approaching and then delaying climax to prolong sexual arousal. This technique is essential for long sessions that include several erotic sex parts. By training the body to climax without ejaculating, edging increases a man’s sexual vitality and helps him have multiple erotic sex sessions at once.
Apply a liberal amount of lubricant
Lubricant, put, improves the sensations of sexual intercourse. Even if your body produces enough natural lubricant, adding lubricant to the equation can increase pleasure, especially if you are having multiple long erotic sex sessions.
Stimulate lots of erogenous zones
If the first erogenous zone becomes over stimulated, try rubbing another erogenous zone that produces erotic sex. After the first orgasm, women may consider stimulating the A-spot instead of the clitoris if they feel the clitoral area is too sensitive. For men, they are stimulating the penis after erotic prostate sex is an option. Try varying sex positions to keep things fresh (and fun).
Working on the refractory period
After the first orgasm, many people feel uncomfortable or unresponsive. However, if you want to stop caressing your genitals, you can prolong the pleasure by caressing other parts of your body. Foreplay techniques such as rubbing and teasing your nipples are best at this point.
Try erotic sex without ejaculation
Many men tend to become desensitized to the genital stimulation caused by ejaculation. By tensing your pelvic floor muscles just before ejaculation, you can practice experiencing erotic sex without ejaculating.
Bring a toy
The secret to increasing sexual pleasure and experiencing plenty of erotic sex may lie in adult toys, such as a vibrator that resembles a magic wand.
